You can treat a blowjob differently: some believe that this activity insults a girl and makes you feel humiliated, others practice him successfully and are convinced that there is no way to diversify sexual life. You can adhere to your own position and protect it, but sexologists resemble — With the right partner and with harmonious relationships, you will not see anything terrible or vulgar in him.
Interestingly, the reason "sad experience" Most often becomes a polar attitude to the blowjob in men and women. Here are a dozen things that you probably would like to tell your beloved before starting oral sex.
1. When the girl is as close as possible to the penis, its size does not matter to her. And this is absolutely serious — The size in this case is not at all important at all. We are ready to repeat it a thousand times. So if a man does not have a tool that is so great that it does not fit in the mouth, it makes no sense to think about it (and even more so).
2. Before starting a blowjob, a man would be nice to take a shower. We do not want to say that the male body necessarily exudes aromas incompatible with life, but the body sweat — And this is completely normal. And the boxers with the function of self -cleaning, unfortunately, have not yet come up with. So if the guy really wants to deliver pleasure to you, and not just pamper himself, he should go to the bathroom. By the way, you can do this together.
3. We read hundreds of articles on how important it is for girls to scream, moan and generally comment on the process during sex, as this helps a man believe in his strength, and at the same time understand that he does everything correctly. So why does not one of them consider it necessary to encourage the partner during the blowjob? Okay, some really do it — But such unique ones can be counted on the fingers. While for us encouraging moans or lingering "Yes a-ah-ah" No less valuable.
4. Pour someone’s face with sperm without warning — Incredibly rude. This can generally be called a game not according to the rules, because oral sex will only be cool if each of the partners is at ease. Men should remember that if a girl did not utter a phrase in the spirit: "Please, dear, surprise me with sperm on my face at least sometimes", this should not be d1. Otherwise, this is the right way to make the blowjob never happen again.
5. To swallow — exception, not a rule. And the man should not insist when the girl refuses to do it. Someone treats this positively, someone negatively, while others generally change their opinion every day. So if a girl refuses to swallow sperm, this does not mean that she does not like a man with whom she has sex — This is just her personal "Taste" preferences.
6. Sometimes during a blowjob girls take a break — simply because not everyone can hold their breath for 10 minutes and feel completely confident. People need oxygen to live. And this is not a sprint, not a marathon and no competition at all, so there are small breaks to restore breathing, seem completely normal to sexologists.
7. The transition from a classic blowjob to a deep throat is physically impossible for some girls. Therefore, it is time for men to understand us and accept the information: the fact that the entire penis should fit in the mouth of a partner — myth actively promoted by men’s magazines. There is such a thing as reflexes, and they do not disappear during sex. That is why it is worth abandoning sharp and active actions once and for all.
8. Many girls have no idea what to do with testicles during a blowjob. Moreover, they would even prefer to prefer that they are not there at all, and calmly finish the begun. You need to lick them? Massage? Something else? If a partner could directly say about it, the world would become much better.
9. Simple phrase like: "Honey, it was great" It is, albeit not one hundred percent, but obvious guarantee that a man will get a blowjob more than once. Many girls during this difficult process of the process experience self -doubt, because they are afraid that they will not be good enough. And this is an incredible stupidity. In any case, the man was lucky that next to him was the one who was ready to take risk and experiments. But girls love ears — And sex is no exception.
10. No girl dreams of trying a pose 69. Why spoil a completely wonderful thing, complicating it with strange positions and convulsions in the muscles? If a girl makes a blow to a man, then she really wants to give him pleasure, not thinking about what she will get in return. Of course, she will not mind if the partner decides to please her in response — But it is better to deal with this after, and not during.